August 10, 2007
Should You Hire Your Friends?
This is a topic where I usually disagree with the conventional wisdom.
I’m one of those people who throws himself into his work. I like to build businesses that are “lifestyle” businesses – in other words the business fits in with my lifestyle and I tailor my work to match the way I live. Because I am heavily invested in this philosophy I have absolutely no problem hiring my friends. This allows me to work with people I like.
In order to make this work I set strict rules for the working relationship. Here are some of the more important rules I set when I hire friends:
My friends are overpaid. I don’t ever want money to be an issue between us so I make sure I go out of my way to pay my friend more than the “going rate” for a job. I also make sure they know know that I am going the extra mile financially.
I only hire friends for jobs where they have no peers. I don’t believe that you can have multiple people in the same position and one of those people is a personal friend and the others were just hired “off the street”. This will kill morale. If you are going to hire a friend they should be in a position that is unique.
My friends know that they don’t get the benefit of the doubt. As a condition of their employment, friends must go above and beyond the call of duty each and every day. If they don’t, they get fired. Period. There are no second chances. Everyone in the outside world must think that I am harder on my friend than I am on everyone else.
I never give a friend a financial interest in the company. This is a non-negotiable item. I don’t like having partners. Joint ventures are fine. Sharing revenue is fine. But I never want to get myself into a situation where I have to continue working with someone because I’ve giving them a share of the company.
Now here are some qualifiers:
First: This only works in entrepreneurial situations. This would never work in a corporate environment. This will also be a disaster in any company you plan on taking public or soliciting outside investors to support. If you own it, you can do whatever you want.
Next: If you are a “Type A” control freak you shouldn’t hire your friends. You’ll kill the business, the relationship and probably yourself.
Finally: If you have any doubts about your ability to make tough, emotional decisions, you shouldn’t work with friends. If you have a hard time deciding what color to paint the office, you definitely don’t want the added difficulty of managing a relationship and a business.
Ultimately, if you’re the kid of person who enjoys sharing fun, laughs and business success with others, working with friends has definite advantages. In may cases it can make going to work an absolute joy.
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